As humans we're always trying to
balance our beliefs and our desires. As men it's normal to have some struggle
at times between our faith and our urges. This Christian Dating Advice article
is about how to fit these two qualities together by gaining a different view
point.
Ancient philosophy tells us that
having sex with someone connects a piece of our soul with the other and then
continues with us forever. That's why it's understandable to want to wait for
marriage.
Let's be real here, to allow yourself
to continue attracting a woman and creating a relationship while you wait for
marriage is tough. It's possible, but it can be one of the most difficult
things to go through. There are things we should take into perspective.
Sex is an important aspect of a relationship!
If you get married to someone who's sexually incompatible with you, it can turn
into a very difficult marriage.
Here are a few pieces of Christian
dating advice that I've learned which will specifically help men who face this
issue of romance vs. faith.
Clear Beliefs
You have to be clear about what you
believe in. After all, our faith and our code is what guides us through life.
You have to be clear on this.
We were all born with the ability to
think and make decisions freely- it was God's gift to us. We look at all our
options while deciding which path we each take. Figure out what your beliefs
are and stick to them, no matter what happens.
Know that God has a plan for You
God can only do so much. He will help
you to find the woman who you are meant to be with, but you have to do your
part as well. This means being proactive.
To find the right woman for you, you
must be proactive. Going out, meeting, and dating women are not things that
just happen and fall into your lap. You have to put yourself out there, go out,
and make it happen.
Sex is an act
Sex is something that comes
naturally, we are born with these urges. Same as: walking, talking and
breathing. We do these things. God wanted man to multiply. It's one of God's
greatest gifts. We are meant to have sex. If we weren't suppose to have sex, He
wouldn't have made it pleasurable.
Realize that women are just people
In the past, we've all put women on
pedestals. This happens when your faith places sex as so important. Thinking of
women as divine goddesses to be treasured is inaccurate. They should be loved
and respected, keeping in mind that women are no different from you and me.
Treating a woman extra special, just because you're sexually into her IS NOT
the same as respecting her.
The main point of this Christian
dating advice is that: "We must strive to love the reality of women, not
our ideal of them." Sex is just one aspect of our species and we all share
similar traits. Read More: http://tinyurl.com/mn75fv9
